Are you celebrating Valentine’s Day this year? Whether you’re looking for at-home date night ideas or Valentine’s Day gift ideas, we’ve got you!
The good old Valentine’s Day, either you love it, or you hate it. For me personally, I like the idea of Valentine’s Day and doing something for someone you love.
It’s fun to show someone in a personal and creative way that you appreciate them. That’s why in this article, we will talk about cheap Valentine’s Day gift ideas that will make Valentine’s special without spending too much money.
Frugal Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas
Here are Valentine’s Day gift ideas for him or her. Gifts that you can give your loved one without breaking the bank.
1. Free Pair of Diamond Earrings
Surprise your loved one this Valentine’s Day with exquisite diamond earrings. Each purchase includes a free gift box, and our 100% naturally mined and conflict-free diamonds ensure both quality and ethical sourcing. The “Grand” stud earrings feature a unique design with small and large stones, offering a bigger look and better value. Give a gift that will dazzle and symbolize your eternal love.
2. Monthly Date Night Subscription Box
Do you want to have a monthly date night filled with fun? With the Crater with Love date night subscription box, there is no planning required. They deliver a new date night idea to your doorstep every month to strengthen your relationship.
Previous date night box themes included solving crimes in Honolulu, Yosemite, or Howling Hotel (escape room).
3. Sock Subscription
Do you want to give your loved one a surprise every single month? Gift them a Stock Fancy subscription. Every month, you get a pair of fun, comfortable, and well-designed socks delivered to your doorstep.
4. The Five Love Languages
The eight-time New York Times best-selling book The Five Love Languages teaches you how we all have a different love language. The book touches on how to deepen your relationship, be more intimate with each other, and strengthen your relationship in the long term.
5. Rose Gold Engraved Necklace
When you want to make your Valentine feel special, this rose gold engraved necklace does exactly that. You can give a personalized gift without spending hundreds of dollars, leaving you enough budget for a date night in!
6. The Bucket List Book
If you are looking for adventures for a lifetime and doing exciting new things, the Bucket List book is the perfect gift. It is the guide to fun and exploration. With many of us yearning to travel, it is the perfect book to get ideas and make your next travel plans.
7. Talk, Flirt, Dare
If you are looking to reconnect or want to have a fun evening, Talk, Flirt, and Dare is a great gift for that! You can give this as a wedding or anniversary gift for him or her or as a present to spice up any relationship.
8. Scented Candle
If you want to give a personalized gift that is funny and thoughtful, you may want to consider these scented candles. You can put any text on them, and I have to say that I love you more than Tacos is one of my favorites!
9. Bamboo State Serving and Cutting Board
If you want to give your Valentine a personalized gift, surprise them with a bamboo serving and cutting board of one of the states. Whether it’s the state you currently live in or the state you would like to move to, it makes for a unique Valentine’s Day gift idea.
10. Vintage Record Player
If your Valentine enjoys listening to music, a vintage record player can be quite the gift. You can put this one in your bedroom, living room, or office. The retro look, together with the modern technology, makes both the price and design attractive.
11. Essential Oil Diffuser
When you want to make the house smell good and make your significant other happy, an essential oil diffuser may be what you’re looking for. The aromatherapy diffuser is BPA-free, and you can use it anywhere you want!
12. Love Language – The Card Game
If you want to connect to someone you just started dating or someone you have been married to for years, the Love Language game is designed to bring you closer together.
13. Heart Shaped Waffle Iron
What is more fun than having breakfast in bed? Imagine having waffles in bed with this heart-shaped waffle iron.
If you’re not the type that wants hearts, here’s another fun waffle iron that makes pineapples. It may be one of my favorites:
14. watch Your Favorite Movies Together
Do you want to give the gift of doing something together? Here is a movie scratch-off poster. Scratch off all the movies you’ve watched together, and start working your way down on the list. This will probably extend far beyond Valentine’s Day.
15. Date Night In Cookbook
Valentine’s Day does not have to be expensive dinners out. With this Date Night in cookbook, you can enjoy amazing dinners while social distancing.
16. Massage Candle
If a couple’s massage is slightly above budget, know that you can still treat yourself on a budget. With the massage candle, you can stay in the comfort of your home and enjoy.
17. Chocolate Covered Oreos
Chocolate is one of the classic Valentine’s Day gifts that you don’t want to skip. What is better than this box of Barnett’s box with Chocolate Covered Oreos.
18. Coffee Mug Warmer
With this mug, the hot beverage of choice will stay warm all day. You can determine how warm you want your drink, and it will be at the perfect drinking temperature the entire day. I cannot think of a better Valentine’s Day gift than this coffee mug warmer.
Free Valentine’s Day Ideas For Him Or Her
Now onto the free Valentine’s Day ideas. While Valentine’s Day is a great way to connect to the people you love, you don’t have to spend money to do it. You can have a great V-day without spending money.

20. Replicate Your Favorite Date
To think of an appropriate Valentine’s gift, think about your favorite moments with that person. Perhaps you had a great time together going to the local bookstore or going to the place you first met.
I love to go with my partner to the city where I lived when I was studying, which is also the city where we first met. It feels like home for both of us, and it’s something nostalgic to do every once in a while!
21. Acts of Service
Does your sweetheart hate folding the laundry, cleaning up the house, or making dinner? This year with Valentine’s Day, take over their chores as an act of service. It’s a small effort for you that will be very much appreciated!
22. Write A Letter
Writing a letter on paper has something so romantic around it! So surprise your sweetheart with a hand-written card this Valentine’s Day. Tell them what you love about them, your favorite memories together, and why you appreciate them.
You can send your letter through the Loveland Remailing Program, where volunteers from Loveland, Colorado, will stamp an additional verse to your Valentine’s Day letter.
23. No Phones For 24 Hours
Do you want to connect with your significant other truly? Are you looking at your phone regularly when you are with your partner? As with many people, this is the case. Giving the gift of 100% attention to your loved one may be what they want on this special day.
24. Cook Together
I love cooking together! You can listen to music, have a glass of wine. Every once in a while, you check whether your meal is not burnt yet! I love homemade pizza (yes, I call that cooking), anything with rice or some pasta. Don’t forget to get a nice wine (or beer, whatever you prefer) and some candles out. Quality time guaranteed.
25. Take A Nice Long Walk
If you want to hit two birds with one stone, you can take a nice long walk together to get more fit. Walking is a great way to connect since you have the time to chat about whatever you want. While, at the same time, you’re getting fit.
If you and your loved one want to be more active together, one great gift can be a fitness tracker.
26. Go Local
I bet that in the city you live in, or a city close to you, there are tons of things that you can visit! Discover the city, walk around, and visit museums or local landmarks. When you avoid expensive museums and don’t go out to eat for every meal of the day, this can be a pretty inexpensive day.
27. Secret Notes Or Hidden Candy
When you want to surprise your significant other first thing in the morning, hide candy or leave secret notes where you know they will find them. Slip a note in their bag, or put some candy in their car. Waking up in the morning and finding secret notes or hidden candy is a pleasant surprise that everyone will appreciate.
28. Go For A Picnic
Depending on the weather in your area, a picnic can be a great idea. You bring your own food, your own drinks, and a blanket. If you are not so lucky to live in the South, where the weather allows a picnic in February, you can have an inside picnic idea as well.

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29. Do A Scavenger Hunt
Do you want to have fun with your sweetheart? Create riddles that they need to answer and make them a scavenger hunt!
30. DIY Spa Night
If you want to spend time together and want to have a romantic evening, you can have a DIY spa night. You can run a bath, make some face masks, or give a massage.
If you don’t have the items for a home spa set, you can always choose to get yours here:
31. Binge-Watch Your Favorite Show
When you want to spend more time with your loved one, freeing up an entire day and just binge-watching your favorite TV show can be perfect. You want to rest, have delicious snacks, and enjoy each other’s company.
32. It’s YOUR Valentine’s Day, Do Whatever You Want!
In the end, Valentine’s Day is not about the gift-giving in particular. It is about showing your loved ones that you care about them and that they are special to you. For some people, Valentine’s Day is just another day of the week. For others, however, it is special, and they love to pamper their loved ones. Celebrate it how you want to celebrate it, not how you think you should celebrate it.
If you find it hard to come up with something, here are some great gift ideas for women who have everything!
What I’m trying to say here is this: if you love Valentine’s Day and you love gift-giving and spending time with your sweetheart on the 14th of February, that’s all good. If you don’t, that’s all good as well. Make the holiday optimal for you, enjoy!
If you want to educate your sweetheart financially, Rich Dad Poor Dad might be a good gift. It is a good read while at the same time explaining what steps you should take to increase your financial literacy. Read my Rich Dad Poor Dad book review here!
My plans will probably be eating Ben & Jerry’s and watching a Christmas movie because, let’s be honest, that is the real thing that I enjoy 1000% and what I’ll be doing every day when I FIRE.
If you need more Valentine’s Day ideas, check out this page for more inspiration.
What are your plans for Valentine’s Day?

Founder of Spark Nomad, Radical FIRE, Journalist
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Education: Bachelor of Economics at Radboud University, Master in Finance at Radboud University, Minor in Economics at Chapman University.
Over 200 articles, essays, and short stories published across the web.
Experience: Marjolein Dilven is a journalist and founder of Radical FIRE, a personal finance platform, and Spark Nomad, a travel platform. Marjolein has a finance and economics background with a master’s in Finance. She has quit her job to travel the world, documenting her travels on Spark Nomad to help people plan their travels. Marjolein Dilven has written for publications like MSN, Associated Press, CNBC, Town News syndicate, and more.