Communication is a Gift
The latest issue of Storytime features a wonderful tale about Paige, a girl who goes in search of an unidentified flying object. Paige happens to use British Sign Language (BSL) and sometimes her unique way of perceiving the world gives her an advantage!
Stories like this remind us that people communicate in many different ways. Some use sign language or lip-reading, others use Braille or special devices, and some simply prefer gestures, writing or another spoken language. Sometimes we’re tired, distracted or in a noisy place, and clear communication becomes a challenge for us all!
The good news is, with a little care and curiosity, we can always find ways to connect. Making new friends – and learning new ways to share ideas – can be a truly rewarding experience.
Here are some tips to help everyone to communicate better:
When chatting with people who have hearing impairments or use different languages:
Get their attention first. You can wave, tap lightly on a table, or say their name.- Ask how they’d like to communicate. It could be sign language, lip-reading, writing, or even an app.
- Speak clearly and naturally, at normal speed. Sometimes, Deaf people can also lip-read and slowing down too much or shouting can make things harder.
- Face them so they can see your expressions and lips when you talk. Covering your mouth, eating or chewing gum can make lip-reading difficult!
- Learn a few useful words and phrases in BSL – this can be a fun thing to learn, and a good communication skill to have.
- Writing things down can be a good method to help and explain things. You can even share stories… and even issues of Storytime!
When talking with people who have sight impairments – or anyone who can’t see you clearly (maybe it’s dark, or they’re distracted):
Say hello and introduce yourself so they know who’s there.- Speak clearly and not too loud either. But help them to know you are close by. You might gently touch them on the shoulder to get their attention.
- Use names so people know who you’re talking to.
- Describe what’s happening nearby if it helps set the scene.
- Let them know if you’re leaving the conversation.
- Share audio stories with them, including ones that can be found on the Storytime Hub!
When communicating with people who use other systems or who face other communication challenges:
Always ask what works best for them and how they prefer to communicate.- Tools like Makaton (symbols, signs and speech) or AAC devices (picture books, tablets) can be part of the mix.
- Don’t rush. Patience makes everyone feel more comfortable and rushing makes it more difficult for everyone to follow.
- Don’t pretend to understand if you don’t. It’s OK to ask again.
- Listen closely and pay attention to gestures and reactions. Communication isn’t always about words.
Above all, take your time, be kind, and enjoy connecting! Clear speech, friendly gestures and really listening are things that help in every conversation – whether with someone who signs, someone learning English, or simply a friend who’s having a busy day.
This month’s Teaching Resources Pack includes fun activities to explore different forms of communication – from BSL to Braille – so we can learn how creative and exciting communication can be.
What’s the most interesting way you’ve ever communicated with someone?
