During this holiday season, a wonderful time to reflect on gratitude, a psychologist shares her waiting-room intervention to encourage clients to focus their attention more on gratitude. Expressing gratitude for the seven things listed below not only eases stress but also improves mood.
The simple act of expressing gratitude for one’s life fortunes offers such a powerful antidote to depression and anxiety that psychologist Jessica Loftus integrated this practice as a counseling “intervention” in her waiting room years ago. A table-top wishing well bearing the sign, “Gratitude Well”, prominently displays the invitation to “write down one thing for which you are grateful on a piece of paper and toss it into the well.” Each week a gratitude drawn from the well is posted conspicuously in the waiting room.
Here are the responses to the question, “What are you grateful for?”
Beloved Pets
My little Bunny, Hoppers. He brings a smile to my face.
My cat, Cinnamon
My beloved horse who is my faithful companion.
Walking my dog, Zoey
Ralph, my dog, who always knows how to cheer me up.
Unconditional love from an animal
Visiting a local animal shelter
Family and Friends
Little girls who can’t stop giggling
My loving sister
My healthy new-born baby
My best friend who allows me to Be a real person
Friends who support me
Someone who is willing to truly listen to me
Being Healthy and Alive
I am on the right side of the dirt!
I wake up every day even though I don’t want to.
My cancer scare is over.
Life and Health
Hope for a better future
Being alive to enjoy this glorious day
Grateful to be alive. Mom and Dad RIP
Faith in God
Grace
God, who walks with me daily
All the gifts we are given but we miss.
My faith
Jesus, who forgives me
My guardian angel
Being in a world where I know that I am loved.
Getting Help with Life’s Problems
My willingness to seek help
My counselor
Second chances
Learning it’s okay to ask for help
Having a friendly ear on the ready
Special People
The Army
My Teachers
Love
An Engagement
All of Whom I meet
The chance to show off my talents without judgment
It is not my fault for others’ cruel behaviors
Simple Things
This beautiful weather
Watching the clouds roll by on a lazy summer day.
Today’s glorious temperatures
A walk in the rain
My home
Food
Freedom
Legalization
A Perfect Rose
What is this Psychologist Grateful for?
“I am grateful for all the opportunities in my life to use my true gifts to help others to find their true gifts and walk their true paths. I am also grateful for this opportunity to encourage all of you to focus a bit more on gratitude. While feasting on a bountiful Thanksgiving meal, take a few moments to reflect on the many simple things for which you are grateful. You will be amazed at how this will improve your mood.”
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