Go With the Flow: Lessons in Leadership, Strategy, and Teamwork From Bhutan
Go With the Flow: What White-Water Rafting on Bhutan’s Mo Chhu River Taught Me About Leadership, Strategy, and Teamwork
There’s something unforgettable about sitting on a blue raft, gripping your paddle tightly as the river surges beneath you, eyes on the guide, heart pounding, surrounded by towering Himalayan peaks.
That’s where I found myself recently — on the Mo Chhu, the “Female River” in Punakha, Bhutan. This river merges downstream with the Pho Chhu (“Male River”) just below the majestic Punakha Dzong, one of Bhutan’s most iconic and sacred fortresses. Together, they become the mighty Puna Tsang Chhu, flowing powerfully onward through Bhutan’s valleys.
As we launched into the foaming rapids, one lesson immediately struck me: you have to go with the flow. On a wild river, you can’t overpower the current. It’s stronger, faster, and unpredictable. But if you learn to work with it — if you respect its force and adjust your moves — it becomes your greatest ally.
A Team of Strangers, a Common Goal
Our raft team was beautifully international: Americans, Russians, Bhutanese, and Indians, all brought together by adventure. Most of us had never met before. We spoke different languages, came from different cultures, and had different physical abilities. But once on that raft, none of that mattered.
We had one shared goal: stay safe, stay upright, make it through the rapids.
To do that, we had to align under a simple system of communication: the guide’s sharp, clear commands. “Forward!” “Stop!” “Lock in!” “Backward!” “Hang on!” Every voice and every paddle stroke had to fall in line. There was no time for debate or overthinking — only listening, trusting, and synchronizing.
Strategy is Like Water
As someone who teaches leadership and strategy, I couldn’t help but reflect on a favorite quote from Sun Tzu’s The Art of War:
“Strategy is like water. It shapes its course according to the nature of the terrain.”
Great leaders don’t rigidly force plans through; they adapt. They read the environment, adjust to challenges, and let the shape of circumstances guide their moves. On the Mo Chhu, we weren’t just passengers — we were strategists in real time, responding to the river’s twists, rocks, and currents.
If we pushed too hard, we risked capsizing. If we hesitated, we lost momentum. It was a delicate dance between strength and surrender, direction and flow.
Lessons from the River
As we made our way through breathtaking landscapes, framed by misty mountains and ancient fortresses, I realized the river was teaching timeless leadership lessons:
- Trust the leader — The guide sees dangers and opportunities ahead that you can’t. Trust allows you to move decisively.
- Communicate simply and clearly — In moments of turbulence, clarity can save time and lives.
- Synchronize the team — No one paddler can power the raft; only the collective effort moves you forward.
- Stay adaptive — Success depends on reading the environment and adjusting your strategy to match.
- Go with the flow — Fighting forces bigger than yourself wastes energy; working with them amplifies your power.
Reflection for Leaders: Are You Steering Like a River Guide?
As I thought more deeply about the rafting experience, I realized how many reflective questions it raises for anyone in a leadership role:
- Are you leading with agile, terrain-based strategy? Are you willing to change and adapt as the environment shifts, or are you clinging to rigid plans that no longer fit the terrain?
- Are you clear with your team on the ground rules? Do you have a shared operating system — a set of simple, consistent rules or rhythms — that keeps the raft afloat and moving in the right direction?
- Are you flexing your communication style? Do you know when to encourage softly and when to be assertive, especially when the rapids get rough?
- Are you trusting your team to synchronize? Do you have confidence that when it matters most, your team will align their strokes and pull together?
- Are you providing real-time feedback? Are you helping the team understand what’s working, what’s not, and what adjustments need to be made?
- Are you keeping an eye on the current ahead? Are you staying vigilant, scanning for what’s coming next, so you can anticipate and guide your team?
- Are you enjoying the ride? Even in the midst of challenge, are you remembering to pause, take in the scenery, and appreciate the journey with your team?
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Downloadable Reflection Guide: [Click here to download a printable PDF with the leadership reflection questions above to use with your team or in your own journaling practice.]
