Navigating love, intimacy, and relationships isn’t always easy—but it’s essential for our wellbeing. Whether you’re exploring your identity, healing from past experiences, improving communication with a partner, or just trying to understand yourself better, this collection of resources for love is here to support you. Below, you’ll find workbooks, guides, and tools that cover everything from setting boundaries and enhancing emotional intimacy to understanding consent and sexual health.
These resources are designed to empower people of all identities and relationship styles to create healthier, more fulfilling connections—with others and with themselves.
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Resources for Love: Date Night
Learn your love languages!
Spin the wheel for date night ideas with this free randomized date idea wheel.
Use this free date night questions generator site for a mix of fun, deep, and romantic questions to! get to know your partner better. For even more questions, see 200 Questions for Couples.
Visit this online planetarium for some star-gazing from home at any time of the day or night.
Find (and agree on!) something memorable to do together with Cobble.
Create a couples bucket list.
View famous works of art from home with Colossal, an epic online art magazine worth exploring.
Resources for Love: Celebrate & Memorialize Your Love
Create a timeline of your love story to include important milestones.
Tell your story with LoveBook or use free Canva templates to create a digital scrapbook.
Use this fun site to generate the perfect love letter! (You can also generate date ideas!)
Create a custom relationship meme with this free meme generator.
Sex Education
Beducated Beducated offers free trial lessons on topics like tantric sex, sensual massage, oral sex techniques, and more. Courses are high-quality and video-based.
Emily Nagoski, Ph.D. If you’ve read Come As You Are, you know Emily Nagoski is one of the most influential voices in sex education. Her website features videos, worksheets, podcasts, and guides on sexual desire, body image, and pleasure science.
OMGYES While mostly paid, this evidence-based, pleasure-positive site offers free videos and science-backed insights into women’s pleasure. Great for couples looking to learn, not just guess.
Pleasure Mechanics Tons of free podcast episodes, guides, and email series on everything from sensual touch to kink curiosity. Smart, shame-free, and queer-inclusive.
Sexplanations with Dr. Doe A playful, science-based series of short YouTube videos covering everything from orgasms to aftercare to erotic novelty. Smart and entertaining—watch together and discuss after.
The Vulva Gallery An artistic, body-positive project that showcases real stories and illustrations of vulvas in all their diversity. A beautiful, affirming way for couples to explore body image, anatomy, and curiosity without shame.
Healthy Communication
Questionnaires & Assessment Resources for Love, Attachment, Boundaries, & Communication
21 Questions to Test How Well You Really Know Your Partner | From childhood nicknames and stinging disappointments to least favorite smells.
Attachment Styles and Close Relationships | Interactive surveys to determine attachment style
Boundaries Quiz | Interactive quiz
Communications Style Questionnaire | Determine if you’re an activist, a pragmatist, a theorist, or a reflector (PDF with scoring instructions)
Communication Style Quiz | PDF assessment (page 3) (Source: Ball State University: Mind Matters)
Couples Satisfaction Index (CSI) | PDF assessment to measure relationship satisfaction
Emotional Needs Questionnaire | 12-page PDF (Source: Willard F. Harley, Jr./Integral Psychology) (1986)
Fear of Relationship Commitment Test | Interactive assessment (Source: Queendom)
Feeling Connected In Your Relationship? | Interactive quiz (Source: PsychCentral)
Giver/Taker Test | Interactive test (Source: PsychTests)
Gottman Relationship Checkup | Sign up for a free account to access the online interactive assessment
How Deep Is Your Love? | Interactive quiz (Source: PsychCentral)
Learn Your Love Language | Choose your version: Couples, Children’s Quiz, Teens, or Singles. An online assessment to determine your primary love language. (You are required to enter your information to get quiz results.)
Marital Satisfaction Scale | PDF assessment to evaluate marital satisfaction; click on link listed in “Interactive Section for Couples”
Quick Compassionate Love Test | Interactive quiz (Source: PsychCentral)
Relationship Attachment Style Test | Interactive test (Source: Psychology Today)
Relationship Attachment Style Test | Interactive test (Source: PsychTests)
Shared Meanings Questionnaire | 3-page PDF (Source: Dr. John M. Gottman and Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman/Integral Psychology)
Sustainable Marriage Quiz | Interactive quiz (Source: PsychCentral)
Therapist-Recommended Reads for Couples
Come As You Are: Revised and Updated: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts
Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert
Resources for Love: Booklets & Guides
Resources for Love: Workbooks
Resources for Love: Worksheets & Handouts
Supplementary Materials
Disclaimer: The supplementary materials provided are intended to be used only in conjunction with purchased workbooks. These free resources are designed to enhance the learning and application of workbook contents and do not replace the full workbook itself. Distribution or use of these materials without the accompanying purchased workbook is not authorized.
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