The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins ~ A Page Before Bedtime
Rating: 3.5 of 5 stars
Pages: 257 pages
Published: December 2024
Probably like many of you, I heard about the viral sensation, Let Them, on various forms of media – social, radio, podcasts, etc. At the beginning of the year, when one of my coworkers mentioned she was going to read the book, I offered to buddy read and discuss it with her. Mel Robbins, along with her co-author and daughter worked on this practical self-help guide to help readers give themselves permission to pursue dreams, confront fears, and embrace their authentic selves.
The book opens explaining the “Let Them theory”. Robbins posits it as a “proven method that teaches you how to protect your time and energy, and focus on what matters to you” (p. 12). While the “let them” portion of the theory is catchy and memorable, the rub is in the second part, which is “let me.” The author explains that by letting go of trying to control others; you create space to let yourself live freely and authentically. She simply reminds the reader: “The only person you are in control of is you” (p. 30). Throughout her book, she provides scientific research and academic studies to bolster her position. Robbins uses personal stories and experiences in a conversational tone to offer useful advice in the form of actionable tips that any reader can implement immediately.
Recommendation: This book is an inspiring self-help formula for crafting better relationships by embracing one’s own authenticity. It serves as a reminder that we are in control of what we do and how we react to what others do, but we cannot control other people. Whether you’re at a crossroads in your career or personal life, this book provides the common sense tools and encouragement needed to embrace your true self. I recommend it to those needing that reminder.
Regardless of whether I purchase a book, borrow a book, or receive a book in exchange for review, my ultimate goal is to be honest, fair, and constructive. I hope you’ve found this review helpful.
